Love increases when it is shared and the beautiful days in our memories are always those spent with our beloved ones. Certain days we spend with our family or friends are so beautiful that we want to stop the time and fully enjoy those moments for a longer time. Is it the same when we are alone?

 

We think that certain moments spent with our beloved ones are beautiful but we forget that we can also enjoy that moment when we are alone as well. In fact, we can also collect memorable moments when we are alone. We can make a moment beautiful by looking at a routine action that we do every day from a different perspective. Furthermore, we can look at loneliness differently at those moments when we are alone. It is like the sea view we look at in the morning that appears to be different to us in the evening... We see a completely different, enthusiastic and captivating view when the overseas lights on the hills that we do not notice in the daylight begin to flash. It is like those flashing lights wink at us, and we feel like we are looking a completely different place in the dark of the night. This is how people see the sun that rises every day more beautiful than the previous days.

 

Small moments can be turned into unforgettable memories or new details can be noticed on the road that we walk every day. It is all about us, just need to know how to enjoy life. When we are alone, we should let our pleasure fly happily and freely in the sky like a kite.

Suppose that it is a Sunday and your wonderful day is starting. Don’t be too lazy to prepare a delicious table for yourself. Set a beautiful table as if your guest is coming to your house for breakfast. Play your most favorite song at the breakfast and decide what you will do on that day or just read your newspaper.

 

You want to go on a holiday to rest, relax or explore new locations. Realize that going on a holiday on your own is so enjoyable. Just decide where you would like to go, prepare your suitcase and hit the roads. It is as simple as that! Get ready to explore a city or country on your own, then write your own adventures in your diary. Don’t be mistaken that you need someone else for a wonderful holiday. We are sure that it will be an unforgettable holiday.

 

It is weekend and you want to relieve tiredness of the week. If so, go on long nature walks or ride a bicycle. Walk on the streets you have never walked before. For example, if it is raining, do not take an umbrella with you. Go back to your childhood. Remember those moments when you were playing in the rain, got wet and so happy. Try to look at rainy days from a different perspective.

Prepare a photo album for yourself that is full of your most beautiful memories. Photos cannot tell their stories but you can. In order to go back to that moment, write the date and time when the photo was taken, then wrote what you felt at that moment. Every photo has some stories and you can make it more unforgettable by writing those. A picnic you had with your friends on a summer day, your most unforgettable birthday or street where you spent your childhood… We are sure you will really enjoy preparing this album when you are alone at home.

 

 

Edip Cansever says “Loneliness is the most valuable thing bestowed from one to someone.”. Do not forget that the days you spend alone are very special and beautiful as well!  

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